The first thing to consider when financing a wedding is the source, or sources, of the finances. Keep in mind that, typically, today's couples are more established and may rely less on parent contributions. However, depending on the couple, they may be relying solely on the parents' contributions or a blend of contributors.

If you are involved with contributing financially to the wedding, be sure to establish a set dollar amount early. Financial discussions are not an everyday topic; however, establishing a budget early and communicating clearly is essential to successful wedding planning.

In order to streamline communication with the Wedding Planner, we recommend that there be one main point of contact for all aspects of the wedding. Typically, this point of contact may be the bride or the groom or a parent. This clear point of contact will help to maintain a consistent understanding of all tasks and deadlines.

Couples may need extra support during the planning process and may come to you for suggestions. There are many wedding to-dos', couples may need assistance with the following tasks:

• Solidifying the guest list
• Providing names and address for the guests
• Special guest needs such as dietary, wheelchair assistance or child care options to be gathered for the bride and groom

• The mother of the bride typically sets her attire and communicates the color to the mother of the groom so that she can then select her attire.
• Parents of the bride typically take the lead on the wedding ceremony and reception.
• Parents of the bride may host a farewell event, such as a brunch, the day after the wedding (this is also often hosted jointly with the parents of the groom)

• The mother of the groom typically allows the mother of the bride to first select her attire, then chooses her own attire accordingly.
• Parents of the groom typically take the lead on the rehearsal dinner.
• Although the parents of the bride often throw a farewell event such as a brunch, the parents of the groom may also contribute, or host the event themselves.
• As a gesture, it is customary of parents of the groom to contribute to the payment of the bridal bouquet.